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I work with parents and caregivers in supporting their children through a sex-positive lens. I strive to destigmatize discussion of sexuality and sexual health between generations. I encourage age-appropriate, empowering, respectful and informative sex education for all family members, regardless of age and role. Common topics may include: Comprehensive sex education, sex-positivity in children's lives; the cultural implications of shame and erotophobia on children; understanding the impact of the family's sexual history on children; and age-appropriate discussions on sexuality with children.
2SLGBTQIA+ families are families in which some or all family members identity within the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. This can include family members who identify as sexually or affectionally nonconforming, gender nonconforming, and/or intersex. 2SLGBTQIA+ families may need help with the family attunement and acceptance when a family member comes out and/or begins transitioning. 2SLGBTQIA+ families may need help with supporting family members as they come out and/or begin to transition (socially, medically, legally, etc.). 2SLGBTQIA+ families may need help with navigating 2SLGBTQIA+ affirmative healthcare and advocating for LGBTQIA+ family members in their community (schools, workplaces, religious/spiritual community, extended family, etc.).
Consensual nonmonogamy (CNM) refers to the practice of engaging in romantic, sexual or other intimate relationships with more than one person. Polyamory refers to the practice of bonding with more than one person. Polyamorous refers to a sexual identity of being attracted to and/or longing to bond with more than one person. It's important to note that polyamory is not the same as polygamy or polygyny. Polygamy and polygyny are practices centered around one partner holding power and privilege over the other partners. Individuals engaging in polyamorous and CNM relationships have been historically marginalized and pathologized in our society to due the halo affect of monogamous couples and nuclear-family values. However, less than 15% of families in the US today look like a nuclear family. Families engaging in polyamory or CNM may need help with family attunement and accept of family members who are polyamorous or practice CNM. These families may also need help with navigating challenges related to polyamory or CNM (education, boundary setting, communication, etc.) These families may also need help with accessing polyamorous- and CNM-affirming resources.
Critical Race theory refers to collective critical views of how US macrosystems are inherently racist. Critical race theory rejects colorblindness and political neutrality and prioritizes dismantling white supremacy, which operates at the direct and persistent expense of communities of color. Queer theory focuses on unlearning conditioned beliefs and reimagining identity, wellness versus sickness, psychopathology, gender and sexuality.
Relational–Cultural therapy (RCT) is a form of therapy that emphasizes the importance and transformative power of our sense of self and our connection with others. RCT believes that humans naturally grow toward and through connection with others. RCT highlights the role our families, community and society play in forming our identities and beliefs about ourselves.
Attachment theory is a therapeutic perspective based on the role of attachment in our lives. Attachment is a deep, enduring bond that connects us to our loved ones another across time and space. We are believed to have attachment-styles based on the quality of our relationships with our caregivers as children.
Transgenerational family therapy is a form of therapy that focuses on the interactions of family members across generations as a way of understanding current functioning and struggles and preventing those struggles from enduring in future generations.
Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB) explores the adaptability, resilience and transformative power of our brains. IPNB focuses on our conscious mind, our relationships and our embodied brains. Our brains continue to grow and adapt across the lifespan, as they are capable of creating new neural pathways, or new ways of thinking and relating in our lives.
Mindfulness-based practices give us a chance to focus our attention on the present moment. When we engage in mindfulness, we experience our senses, thoughts, feelings and emotions, physical sensations, and behavior in a way curious, compassionate and nonjudgmental way.
While family therapy can be immensely rewarding and beneficial for many families, family therapy is not always beneficial, recommended or appropriate. In some cases, other forms of treatment are required or recommended in order to best serve the members of the family.
Abuse is not a relational issue that all family members are equally responsible for addressing. Abuse is an issue belonging to the individual committing the abuse. Engaging survivors of abuse in non-specialized family therapy with their abusers puts the survivors at risk for further normalization of the abusive treatment, and can put the survivors' safety at risk. Specialized treatment is required to address individuals engaging in abusive behaviors. To learn more about what domestic violence can look like, you can visit this site.
If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, intimate partner violence, or abuse, you can visit my Crisis Resources page for more information on how to gain support.
While family therapy can supplement other parts of an individual's substance abuse treatment, untreated substance abuse requires specialized care from trained and experienced providers.
If you or someone you know is struggling with substance abuse, you can visit my Crisis Resources page for more information on how to gain support.
While family therapy can supplement and complement other parts of an individual's mental health treatment, untreated serious/severe and persistent mental illnesses symptoms may require specialized, holistic care from trained and experienced providers.
If you or someone you know is struggling with untreated serious/severe and persistent mental illness symptoms, you can visit my Crisis Resources page for more information on how to gain support.
Ethical, beneficial treatment provided in family therapy requires informed consent and participation from the members involved in the family-system. This means that treatment can be provided to the family member(s) who are fully consenting to treatment and showing up to sessions. If a family member is seeking support with their family, and the relevant family member(s) are not consenting to treatment or participating, dyadic (subsystem) or individual therapy services may be more appropriate.
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